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Thanks for sharing this Dario. My experience has been very similar to yours. Always hard on myself and generously loving to others. I had not thought of loving myself the same way. This post reminded me that simply being loving, without necessarily directing it or withholding it from anyone in particular is my intention and desire. When I find myself withholding love from myself, I can think of someone or something that inspires me, and then include myself again in being loving.

I also relate to the relationship situation. About 3 years ago met a beloved. Long distance. We've met a few times over the years. Beautiful time when we are together, and frequently awkward when we are apart. It seems like we both believe we need to meet some sort of standard before we can be together. I want to blame her for withdrawing from me, but instead I get to look at how I unconsciously push her and anyone else away.

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